Jan 18, 2011

Triggered Thoughts

I was on the way back with the other two friends after 3 hours of indoor soccer. Heading towards the Mcd, our car passed by a few cafes filled with people. Sibu is developing? Or just that the lifestyle has changed. It was 11.30pm! To many out there, especially those living in well developed advanced cities where nightlife is a norm, Sibu is a town where the people kick off their day at 5-6am and doze off at 10-11pm, used to be. We call it the healthy way. Being out and not at home at 11.30pm, is unusual!

What caught guys' eyes were definitely the opposite sex? No and yes there were these three young ladies dressed well (you know what I mean) chatting away at a corner. Our car drove pass and caught their attention.

Friend A: "Wah, that three girls ah, so late already still out, not to mention their dressings."

Me: "Haha. They are pretty good looking hey."

Friend A: "Lol. So late already and they are still out there, won't be any better. Good looking also no use."

Silence.

I started to ponder and contemplate. Hmm... Is it being judgmental here? Friend you might be wrong. We can't just judge them by that one occasion. Perhaps they are close buddies haven't met up for long time? Er, perhaps they are hungry like us? Er... But you might be true...

But I have to admit that it is hard to find good quality girls at the same time, stunningly beautiful. Perhaps you might say look doesn't matter, but I think frankly speaking, it does matter to all guy, just that the definition of Beautiful and Good Looking or Hot or Cute varies from one to another.

Do you think God is fair and majestic in His creation, that no one is perfect? You might have this but you don't have that. You might be rich but you are not as clever than the other.

Be contented. Be thankful. Do not conform to the pattern of this world.

It is all inside out. Beauty and appearance will fade, but the heart and values will not.

I am who I am. Be who you are called to be!

1 comment:

Bentuckee said...

u dun have to worry ady ma.. found one ady.